Living the urban life as a working mom in a large American city was never really what I had in mind... but here I am! Small-town Canadian girl turned American urban mama. I live in Philadelphia with my husband and our three daughters Maja, Madeleine, and Pippa.
Hang around, life with us is NEVER boring.
Pippa made her appearance on December 30, 2009 @ 10:07pm.
She weighed in at 7lbs 14oz — much heftier then I had thought she would be. 19″.
Philippa is because we like the name. Even more, I like her nicknames: Pippa, Pips, Pipster.
Emma was my great-grandmother’s name; it’s also my mother’s middle name.
Sabine is my older sister’s middle name.
My labour was… well, FAST. I thought Maddy’s labour was fast? HA! Try this: 1 hr. One. Hour. Quite frankly, I think it’s a small miracle I a) didn’t have the baby at home or b) have the baby in the ER or c) have the baby in the PEC (Perinatal Evaluation Center).
So, on the 30th I had an OB appointment. I was already annoyed that Pips had not made an appearance as now my entire family had left after the holidays — she was LATE and I was DONE being pregnant. The midwife that I saw that afternoon told me that I was at 4cm and about 80% effaced. WOHOO. I quietly asked if I should try the castor oil “trick”… and I got a very sotto voce answer: yes. 4oz in a chocolate shake. But then the midwife said I should wait until the morning of the 31st to do this; if I did it after my appointment I would be in labour all night and tired by the time the baby arrived. The look on my face then caused her to say: You’re not waiting are you? You have the look of a woman who is desperate.
Damn straight. Hello? The drugstore and the chocolate milk shake place are rightnexttoeachother. There was no way I wasn’t going to do the castor oil right away. So, by 3pm I had downed the concoction and probably within an hour I was having some moderate contractions. And it stayed that was for the rest of the afternoon and evening — definitely having contractions but nothing painful. I entertained my in-laws, we had Chinese take-out for dinner, I put the kids to bed at 8pm.
Shortly past 8pm I lay down in bed and prepared myself to do some Sudoku puzzles and fall asleep. I also started writing down some times of contractions. Not that they were painful, but just in case… between 8 and 9pm I had contractions that ranged from 3 min. apart to 8 min. apart. So: Not regular. Not increasingly painful. Not “progressing”.
At 9:10pm I had a contraction that was accompanied by a “pop”. My water broke. I rounded up the troops (Richard and my mom), Richard called our neighbour down the street to be in the house for M&M (who were asleep) and we headed to the hospital. I was checked in by 9:29pm and WALKED over to the PEC. At the PEC things got interesting. I joked that they were going to send me home! I mentioned that if possible I would like an epidural — at which point I believe the PEC nurse started laughing at me. Then all hell broke loose. She checked me — 8cm. No time for an IV. She called in the doctor and the two of them wheeled me down the hall from the PEC into a labour room. Yes, the DOCTOR wheeled the gurney.
Someone in the labour room (I swear there were like 5 nurses and the doctor, plus of course Richard and my mom were in there — a regular party) then mentioned my request for an epidural. Hello??? I’m done with the hard part — I know how this works, so I responded by yelling “THERE’S NO TIME FOR THAT!!!!” and I promptly started pushing… while I was still on the gurney. Someone asked me while I was pushing if I could move over to the other bed! Right. Don’t know how, but I slid over and immediately pushed 2 more times in the space of about a minute (taking a pause to yell at Richard to get the hell over to the bed and hold my hand! dammit) before Pippa made her arrival at 10:07pm.
All I know, is that when I ran into you in the hall at the hospital a few days later, you looked *remarkably* fresh for a woman who had just had a baby. Oh, and once she found out that I knew you, the postpartum nurse kept gushing about what a great mom you were.
Wow – we all thought P would be quick to arrive but this account really brings home how QUICK!! Looking forward to hearing more great tales of all three gals for years to come!
got my feet back on the ground and miss the three girls terribly! Still ’swaying’ when standing still but, no Baby to rock, sniff. I am amazed how quickly you amended the ‘Musings of an urban Mom’ to include the newcomer – does that mean you have free time on your hands?
Congratulations!
I just loved your birth story. I completely understand your need to get her out then and there. I am at wits end being this late myself.
she’s perfect. I can’t wait to get my hands on her. let me know if I can come over and wash windows or something. I know that when there is a newborn in the house and you are staring out a dirty window and you can’t wash it because you don’t have a chance to put your shirt on, tears will come.
Hurray! Great story! And so glad you had such an easy time of it after a not-a-walk-in-the-park pregnancy!
She’s adorable.
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Amazing labour story Katia!
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Congratulations! Glad everything worked out for the best in the end. The 3 girls are bound to cause no end of trouble in the future. Take care
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All I know, is that when I ran into you in the hall at the hospital a few days later, you looked *remarkably* fresh for a woman who had just had a baby. Oh, and once she found out that I knew you, the postpartum nurse kept gushing about what a great mom you were.
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January 24th, 2010 at 12:48 pm
@Ann, ha! Which nurse? Hannah? I liked her. BTW, I thought your co-worker Rose was a fabulous nurse!
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Lovely baby! So glad it was quick – must be the best kind.
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Hooray! Welcome Pippa. Beautiful girl & great name.
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Wow – we all thought P would be quick to arrive but this account really brings home how QUICK!! Looking forward to hearing more great tales of all three gals for years to come!
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Congratulations! She’s beautiful.
I particularly love the matching profile shots in the most recent photo grouping.
She’s your girl!
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got my feet back on the ground and miss the three girls terribly! Still ’swaying’ when standing still but, no Baby to rock, sniff. I am amazed how quickly you amended the ‘Musings of an urban Mom’ to include the newcomer – does that mean you have free time on your hands?
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Congratulations!
I just loved your birth story. I completely understand your need to get her out then and there. I am at wits end being this late myself.
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she’s perfect. I can’t wait to get my hands on her. let me know if I can come over and wash windows or something. I know that when there is a newborn in the house and you are staring out a dirty window and you can’t wash it because you don’t have a chance to put your shirt on, tears will come.
I know that for a fact.
Learned it the hard way.
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I never did get a chance to thank you for the name. That’s awesome of you. Love ya, Kir
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